63 - The psychology of "The Other Woman" and how to avoid becoming her (+ how to heal) ft Dr Tari Mack & Dr Massimo Fontana

The OPENHOUSE therapists discuss a user submission on someone who has been the ‘Other Woman’ for too long. Louise asks the team:

  • *HOW* did this situation happen?

  • How did she get so brainwashed?

  • What sort of man (or woman) entertains a long term affair?

  • Why and how does this person have so much power over her?; and

  • Where does she go from here?

Louise and the therapists discuss:

  • How affairs start

  • The type of man or woman who are most susceptible to being ‘The Other’

  • The statement ‘I can’t leave’ and what this really means

  • The concept of power play and adrenaline

  • The difference between attention & intention

  • The darker, shadow sides of when we accept shameful love

  • How to leave or end an affair and

  • How to avoid one happening in the first place

And more.

Louise also shares her own personal experience with ‘being the other’ and discusses The Thimble Analogy - the game changing therapy analogy that radically changes the way that you understand how, and why, you accept less than loving love - and how to change this.

And more!

Stream on Spotify here and Apple Podcasts here

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